Talk Tuesday ~ The Mess In Progress


This title was taken from Bishop T.D. Jakes’ sermon title Sunday, February 8th, 2015

This might sound gross so BEware. Today my girl asked me to vacuum the living room, and in our office, so I did. But once I got down to our office I realized how nasty it was.  It was like I had finally come up from the desk to see what was going on. Why were there spiderwebs everywhere. A nice one; hanging somewhat over my head. I put the long suction tube on the vacuum cleaner and began to suction every cobweb into the vacuum while talking so bad about myself.

“UGH…Now you know you’ve had clients over here and look. I’m surprised no one said anything. They could’ve thought I was in here worshiping the devil. Lord, I know you must’ve kept them from seeing them.” But soon after I thought “that’s how hard you’ve been working.”

What have you been working hard to achieve and might be letting something else go that you’ve been beating yourself up about? Stop it today. Love yourself enough to know that you are doing your best and that it all is going to work to your good.

~KaiologyInk

 

Talk Tuesday ~ Do Better


I had a conversation like I haven’t had in a long time. If you knew me, you’d know that I love to listen to good conversation. I wonder for a moment where that person went, it’s been so long. I used to be a good listener and last night reminded me just how much I do love it. Listening to hear the experiences of others; pieces of their journeys shared from their lips to my ears. I always get something, mostly confirmation.

I woke up this morning after listening to the most wonderful and poignant, and sincerely relevant to this current time, conversation. A conversation so real that you couldn’t help but listen. We talked about a myriad of things but what was interesting to me was to hear how deficient some of us are. Not just that, but how there are those of us who aren’t deficient in that particular area have decided to keep going. Sometimes wanting to stop to pick a few people up but the higher you go you aren’t warranted to do so. My question was “why” why are we so deficient in our thinking and ultimate doing. Why are we prone to not seek, no, require of ourselves to do more. To do better. Although I ponder that question it was stated that people don’t know. They just say and do some of the darnedest things at the darnedest times because they don’t know any better. I chuckled in amazement as in disbelief but with careful thought you realize how sad it is that we don’t know when to say and do things in its most opportune times.

The time in which we were speaking of was during interviews. Not sure how we got on the subject but we began to talk about the things people say in interviews. So candid at times it’s almost personal. Like people don’t know where to draw the line. I wondered “Don’t they have to take a personal development class in school? Don’t they have to do mock interviews anymore?”  (My mind going through a series of questions?) People can’t keep just going on like this. We know that we have to do something. We don’t always know what to do but we have to do more than just not do anything. We must learn to be more strategic in what we do and say, and when to do and say it. I don’t know any other way around that.

Just as quick as I had thought about the past I began to wonder why or when did we lose the ability to do so? Then my partner questioned our friends in asking “why not still hire the person because you could see how their street skills could benefit the office?” we were speaking of a young lady who we could tell was smart but she just wasn’t office ready from her tone to her gestures. Just then our dear friends both pointed out that we don’t always have time to stop and pick others up. At some point they have to do it themselves because the train is leaving the station and we don’t know how late they will be getting to the destination. Basically, she expects if she is hiring someone for a specific position that they come ready to fulfill all of the attributes of that position. She cannot sabotage the team for one.

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