Let The Dead Bury The Dead


Okay, so if you follow me on Facebook you know that I post quite a bit of questions, “be mindful” quotes, inspirational flyers and posts to inspire thought. Recently I posted “Let the dead bury the dead”. This was actually posted after I was thinking about Easter and the concept of, traditionalized, and ritualistic events that we partake of during this season.  I wondered if “Jesus” would rather us focus on going within and finding our purpose and what we came to do rather than celebrating his death and resurrection. I wondered if he thought we were too focused on dead things. Dead rituals, dead traditions, dead relationships, and that only the dead could continue to bury the dead year after year, generation after generation. At what point do we begin to do something different realizing the state of the dead walking. And then I started thinking about the concept of Jesus…anyway, my thoughts can sometimes go deeper so rather than posting all of that I just posted “let the dead bury the dead” wondering what others would think of that statement. After posting it I had a family member reply with a bit of concern. I’m laughing at it now because I can see how some could be concerned if their perception of me was depressive. Well, I stated that I was okay and basically that the post was about perception. But this actually got me to thinking after it was said that I’ve given the perception that I was serious. It is no perception at all, I am serious. I’ve always been that way. Don’t get me wrong, that is not the total sum of who I am, but I have always had a serious nature. To really love me you have to know me and not the perception of who you believe me to be.

Many of us say “you don’t know me” and it’s just a thing that is said to another when questioned about an act or deed when something out of the norm was done. But I realized that no one outside of my partner and God really knows me. I believe that my life’s purpose is to be a change, or transformations agent if you will, and my higher self has sown the seeds within my platform of self-love, self-growth, and self-development. A lot of my posts on social media has been about others and what they think, encouraging and empowering them. As a person with a Scorpionic nature I could be called secretive but that’s not who I am really. I share much of me through my writing but those things that are deep I have reserved for the space that call for them. Which normally means for those who too enjoy the more deep, thoughtful conversations and have a need for me to share them. My apple cart would be to have more of these type conversations as this is where I feel most at home.

In my life, I have been the person that people come tell their deepest secrets to. I’m not kidding either, I have people walk up to me in stores or wherever and just start talking to me and telling me intimate things about them. For many I have been the person that has been an ear, the secret keeper, a voice of reason, or given to wisdom. But during this time, no one has really asked me outside of my partner, about me. What do I like, what do I think, what do I need, what do I feel? That is my role within this universe, what I agreed to before I came here and I don’t take it lightly, nor do I bitch and moan about it because that is why I am here; but I believe that I do begin to wonder when people assume that I am one way or given to a perception that I am another way because they never asked.

I then began to think about the relationships that I have with people who are family members and those that would call me friend, I realized that even if they are associated with me by blood, some sort of friendship, or business relationship that they don’t really know me at all. They’ve felt close to me because I have encouraged, supported, filled a void or space in their lives but there has not been much reciprocation. For my family members, they know me from whatever age we last had interaction and for most people that’s who you still are.  I’ve walked a lone path for much of my life. Not lonely or alone, just lone. I am not uncomfortable with this part of me. It has been who I have been for most of my life. It was who I was groomed to be. It was who I circumstantially was destined to be, this is my assignment and I am okay with it. So, not for myself but for others to see, I did a post that said I would give a $100 to the person who could answer all six questions, only because I knew no one could. I wanted to dissolve a perception that I believe people have of me. And these were they:

  1. Why did I change my name to Kai?
  2. What makes me laugh?
  3. What makes me cry?
  4. What is my favorite day of the week?
  5. What has the last 5 years been like for me?
  6. What am I most proud of?

 

 

Kai Mann Quoteology Video Series- #1


Let me introduce you to the first video in the Kai Mann Quoteology video series. The Quoteology videos are inspirational and transformational videos made from the Kai Mann brand quote cards. These are a series of videos created in hopes of inspiring the tribe of self developers into their next phase, level, or dimension.

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Q & A–The Eyeology INC Way


13561833_271548746541272_154350629_n(1)Q. You talked about the ideal client for your company being “coachable”. Can you explain that a little more in-depth for me.

A. Yes. If you ask most of us if we’re ready to move to the next level or dimension, our immediate response is ‘yes’. Most of us believe that we’re ready of course; but when you are working with a coach and she begins to tap into some of our immature spaces how ready we are will reveal itself instantaneously. Everyone has some immature spaces: spaces that haven’t been developed yet. But someone who is “coachable’ says “I realize my under-developed areas, I will acknowledge them, and will work on them instead of challenging the person coaching them. “Coachable” individuals are willing to look in the mirror, stare if necessary (no matter how hard it is), and say to the coach “Okay, show me how to work on these areas so I can become stronger and use these areas to my advantage.” Sometimes individuals seem to be coachable in the beginning but the deeper rooted the under-developed area is the harder they fight against changing it and that’s when you find it harder to work with them because they will usually give up before their break-through. Some of us would rather give an excuse for why that area is weak instead of work to fix it or will make their sessions a financial issue so as to have an excuse why they can’t work on them. Someone who is coachable is willing to lay themselves open, bare if they must, in order to move to the next level. They will find a way to continue their services because they realize that the reward is bigger than the sacrifice. It comes down to how bad you want it.

#selfdevelopment #lifecoach #businesscoach #brandstrategist #lifestrategist #lifestrategy #coaching #branding101 #branding #selfgrowth#selflove

13649390_1620298304927907_2066188281_nQ. Why would someone need a Coach or Strategist?
A. The benefits of having a Life Coach or Strategist is the difference between probability and certainty. They help you in life, business, and even branding if you have one. As a life coach they work to strengthen your under-developed areas. A Life Coach will assist you in deciding life paths, and will help you to create a life plan as well as a financial one if needed. As a business Coach they assist you in goal setting, business decisions, creating a business model, and framework for your business as well as infrastructure. A Brand Strategist will give you a blend of life, imagery, and projectory to develop structure and build your brand, and to establish your brand personality while helping you to construct networking strategies, concepts, and ideas. Strategy is necessary to produce desired experiences and results. A phenomenal strategist will flow between all three; life, business, and brand to actualize maximum results. So, anyone wanting to be better, do better, and have more would want a life, business, or brand strategist on their team; Someone to talk to and help you to execute thoughts and ideas. Our (Eyeology INC) Strategist continually seeks new information regarding ‘all’ matters so that she can advise you properly.

#coach #lifecoach #lifestrategy #businessstrategy #branding #selfdevelopment #selflove #selfgrowth #networking #lifeplan #strategist

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13627964_711015695702821_497374204_nQ. How long should it take to gain followers or likes?

A. With the exception of being famous or a celebrity; organically it should take you awhile to get followers and ultimately consistent likes unless you buy them and then you can have as many as you like as quick as you like. But, just like any great relationship it takes time to build. Do your due diligence to create your tribe of loyal followers and you’ll obtain the likes by being authentically you. Create awesome content that reflects who you are and what you’re about and you’ll draw others interested in the same expressions to you.

#branding101 #strategy #brandstrategy #likes #follows #contentisking #organic #authentic #socialmedia #socialmediaidentity #brandidentity
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13724724_313171242353470_1527194606_nQ. How does your Brand Concierge services work?

A. Well, handling your business while developing and managing your brand is essential to your overall success. We help you become more effective and efficient while handling your day to day functions and unique business needs. What that means is that as you work to craft your gift, we take care of your brand. Eyeology INC will schedule your appointments; hire coaches, editors, graphic designers, web designers, videographers, buffers, stylists, book car services, make travel arrangements, handle your small business invoicing… just to name a few services. We collaborate with reputable vendors to get the services that you need at an exclusive rate so all you have to do is show up. “We help you put the pieces together”
#brandconcierge #lifecoach #coaches #strategists #graphicdesigners #webdesigners #stylists #carservice #brand #vendors #buffers #stylists #videographers

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13740926_1849137545315009_20880901_nQ. I am looking for a certain type of client and I don’t want to offend anyone who is not that type of client. How do I attract the type of client that I am looking for?

A. First, be sure that your product or service can sustain that type of client and then go where that client is. Be specific. If you’re looking for high-end (exclusive) clients then know where they shop, what they buy, down to what they look like and go where they are. There is nothing to be ashamed of when asking for what you know you’re worth or the type of client who knows the value of your product or service. (And there is nothing wrong with not wanting to beg for what someone owes you either.) Place yourself in spaces where those clients live and breathe. Also, it doesn’t hurt to know others in your field that may serve a wider range of clients that can help that person or brand. This way the client can still get what they need (just not from you), but you will have added value to them by giving them the name of someone who would be able to do the service for them at a lower rate. Always add value to everyone you come in contact with whether you can help them or not.
#brandingonabudget #branding #marketing #promotions #coaching #brandandlifestyle #highendclient #exclusiveclient #eyeologyinc #brandconcierge #brandeducation #branding101 #clients
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13658433_1556885007951769_1424179749_nQ. I always support other people but they don’t support me. How do I get others to support me?
A. Find your tribe. Just because you support others you cannot expect them to support you. If you write books about serials killers, murders, erotica, and insatiable acts and all the people in your circle are Christians is it fair to ask them to support what you write when you know they don’t agree with it? Find your tribe. Find people who like what you like, do what you do, and can relate to what you write. If your friends only post inspirational and motivational quotes and pictures and you post Memes that degrade women or totally contradicts what they post you can’t really expect them to go against their authentic nature. Again, find people who post the same as you, you’re more likely to get the support you’re looking for.

#authors #books #writing #support #findyourtribe #eyeologyinc

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Conversations With Kai Mann


“This fall life changing conversations begin on “Conversations With Kai Mann”

Join Kai Mann this fall on the “Conversations With Kai Mann show” as she bridges the gaps by bringing to you sensational interviews with guests who will share their stories and messages of success, life, love, hope, faith, spirituality, and transformation.

Host: Kai Mann
Bio
As a writer and conversationalist she is both positive and purposeful. Her keen ability to provoke thought, trigger change and enlighten the lives of others has catapulted her to a literary and media success. Whether it’s in the form of a blog post or article, Facebook status or tweet, internet talk show or webseries, Kai Mann uses her platform to empower and educate followers around the world about the nature of self love, self growth, and the importance of self equity that leads to authentic change and infinite transformation.