The difference between critique and criticism is intent; as with the same when we seek to teach. When we learn the importance of teaching we understand that we don’t seek to “Teach her/him a lesson” but to instruct and give guidance. When we seek to “teach someone a lesson” the lesson loses its effectiveness and power. But when we seek to instruct and give guidance we add value and give wisdom. Remember, when you seek to teach a lesson, teach the lesson without hurting or maiming the person receiving the lesson.