>Growing Apart II

>Sometimes we take another’s actions directly to heart
We assume the negative position right from the start
People we love do things for a number of reasons
And we shouldn’t treat them like they have committed an act of treason
If someone has decided to take a hiatus from you
Allow them space and time to do what they need to
Sometimes people need to grow and need to remove themselves from things that distract
We shouldn’t be upset with them and our kindess of friendship we retract
Maybe there are some things in them that they want to improve
And honestly they do not need us to approve
And sometimes their decision could be a reflection of us
But that’s when we have to give them time and allow them our trust
Maybe we too should take time away from some distractions
To evaluate ourselves and gain some Soul satisfaction
When others take time to reflect upon themselves
Take that energy you would expend upon them to give to yourselves
We need to learn to let some things go in order to gain self
We spend so much energy on outside relationships that we put us on a shelf
Instead of constantly wondering why they no longer call or come by
After you placed the initial question to ask them as to why
When they tell you that nothing is wrong
That’s when you have to trust them and keep moving on
If later the two of you grow indefinately apart
Know that they had to do what was in their heart