They say that you can’t help who you fall in love with but I’m not so sure that’s true. But, I guess after you’ve fallen in love with someone it might be. What if you could see a person for who they were before-hand. Would you really choose to fall in love with them, or would you still fall in love with them because you just couldn’t help it? Most often we look but we don’t see. We fall in love with ideas of people and most often not the person themselves. We make a choice to fall in love with people because of who or what we believe them to be. Maybe if the heart and head were not connected in some way. My belief is that we choose to fall in love whether we’re deciding to open ourselves up to whatever cause they display or because we are ready for love and believe they are the right choice.
If God gave us the choice to fall in love with him, wouldn’t we have the same choice to fall in love with others?